Monday, October 26, 2015

Monday Morning Wake Up Call


Your Motivation, Inspiration, & Direction for the Week Ahead
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CHANGE DOESN’T HAVE TO BE SCARY!

  I hope you had a great weekend and are ready for the week ahead!

  As we approach Halloween, we think of things that go bump in the night
- or things that are scary, such as change.

  Why does change sometimes feel scary? Because change deals with the unknown. When we deal with the "unknown," we sometimes start thinking of what can go wrong. We come up with reasons why we shouldn't move forward, because it's safer to stay put.

  But is it really safer or better to stay put? I remember a story of a woman whose motto was, "Better the devil you know than the devil you don't know." This is based on a proverb that says if you have to choose between a familiar but unpleasant situation and an unfamiliar situation, choose the familiar one because the unfamiliar situation may turn out to be worse! However, this woman was in an abusive relationship. She was afraid to leave, afraid of the changes that would occur, and she became paralyzed with fear of moving forward. That's no way to live.

  While it may seem easier or safer to stay with the "devil you know" - it also is limiting. The world is filled with endless possibilities and incredible opportunities if we are willing to take the first steps toward opening those doors and allowing new experience into our lives.
Change should be celebrated, not feared. This and every week, I challenge you to be more fearless and open to new doors of opportunity.

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
Think back to the changes you made in your life and career that had a positive result. Which of those changes literally altered the course of your life or business? Are you glad that you took the chance?

WEEKLY CHALLENGE
Start thinking about your personal and business goals for 2016. What changes and/or improvements will you make in your personal life and business career?

WORDS OF WISDOM
"Progress is impossible without change, and those who cannot change their minds cannot change anything." - George Bernard Shaw

  "To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often." - Winston Churchill

  "When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves." - Viktor E. Frankl

  "I hope everyone that is reading this is having a really good day. And if you are not, just know that in every new minute that passes you have an opportunity to change that." - Gillian Anderson

  "It may be hard for an egg to turn into a bird: it would be a jolly sight harder for it to learn to fly while remaining an egg. We are like eggs at present. And you cannot go on indefinitely being just an ordinary, decent egg. We must be hatched or go bad." - C.S. Lewis
 
 
 

Monday, October 19, 2015

MONDAY MORNING WAKE UP CALL

Your Motivation, Inspiration, & Direction for the Week Ahead
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Be Thankful
I hope you had a great weekend!   Now is the time to prepare for your November mailings. What are you thankful for? This is a great time to tell your clients that you’re thankful for them. I’ve heard many great ideas over the years, but maybe the most effective also is the simplest: a handwritten notecard to every client that reads, “At this time of year, when I reflect on what I’m most thankful for, I’m thankful for you and the trust that you have placed in me to meet your real estate needs. Wishing you and your family a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday.”
 
Another great idea I heard was an agent who personally delivered a pie to every client at his/her place of work! He left a few business cards at each drop-off and discovered that the pie recipients’ co-workers were so impressed with his gesture that many called him for their real estate needs.
 
Most important, take the time to show appreciation for your clients, your family and your friends. They, after all, are your true employers.
 
Something to Think About
A recent USA Today article reported that – in today’s technology-driven world – a handwritten note is the best and easiest way to get someone’s attention. 
Weekly Challenge
Send a handwritten note to 10 of your clients. Be sure to remember those who have referred business to you. Use this week’s message as your guide, or get creative with your own way of reaching out with gratitude.
 
Words of Wisdom
“In everyone’s life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.” – Albert Schweitzer
“Often people ask how I manage to be happy despite having no arms and no legs. The quick answer is that I have a choice. I can be angry about not having limbs, or I can be thankful that I have a purpose. I chose gratitude.” – Nick Vujicic
“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.” – Oscar Wilde
 
“If you concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul.” – Harold Kushner
 
“You simply will not be the same person two months from now after consciously giving thanks each day for the abundance that exists in your life. And you will have set in motion an ancient spiritual law: the more you have and are grateful for, the more will be given you.” – Sarah Ban Breathnack
 

Monday, October 5, 2015

MONDAY MORNING WAKE UP CALL

Your Motivation, Inspiration, & Direction for the Week Ahead
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The Power of Color
I hope you had a fabulous, colorful weekend. Fall typically is the time when we notice the beauty of color on trees, but did you know that the color you wear affects the impression you make on others all year long?

Color has a lot of power. While it won’t make up for lack of experience, wearing the right color can start you off on the right foot with a client. “Your appearance tells more about you than what you say or how you say it,” declares New York image and style expert Carol Davidson. “And out of all of the elements of your wardrobe, color speaks first.”

How much thought goes into what you wear on a listing appointment? If not much, maybe you should rethink the importance of your choices. How do you want to be perceived by a client you’re meeting for the first time? Here are Davidson’s thoughts on making the perfect first impression:
  • Black conveys leadership. It’s a strong color and highest on the authority scale. If you want to appear to be in charge, black is a great choice.
  • Red is a color of power. Red comes across as bold and assertive. Use caution when wearing red to meet a client for the first time. Red can give the impression of being domineering. “There is a fine line between assertive and aggressive,” Davidson says. “And red is a risky choice. That said, the feisty quality of this color might be well-suited in sales.”
  • Blue gives the impression of being a team player in addition to being enterprising, trustworthy, honest and credible.
  • Gray reads as logical and analytical. Rock solid, wise and reliable. Because gray is a bit more understated, add a red scarf, yellow shirt or purple tie for a bit of personality.
  • White gives the feeling of being organized. It’s a reassuring color that can convey a feeling of new beginnings, impartiality, cleanliness and purity.
  • Green promotes a sense of calm and well-being as well as wealth and prosperity.
  • Yellow signifies optimism and creativity.
  • Purple says creativity. It sends a message of being artistic and unique.
  • Brown says you are simple and slow to change. Comforting and reliable.
  • Orange topped the list as the worst color to wear. It’s the color most likely to be associated with someone who is unprofessional.
No matter which color you choose to wear, Davidson says you also should consider its tone. “All colors can be scaled from authoritative to approachable,” she says. Dark colors are perceived as formal and authoritative, while light colors make the wearer appear more friendly and approachable. Bright colors convey confidence, while muted colors are conservative and less threatening.

And contrasting colors can send a message, too. “The higher the degree of contrast – wearing black and white or navy and white, for example – the more powerful you will appear," Davidson says. “The lower the degree of contrast, the more approachable and friendly you seem.”

Something to Think About
Whether it’s color or style, we work in a people business, and the way you dress does give “an impression.” What impression do you want to project?

Weekly Challenge
Intentionally wear specific colors on your appointments for the next few weeks, based on the feeling you want to project. Note whether you see or feel a difference with your clients.

Words of Wisdom
“I’m in love with red. I think it’s such a passionate color. Every flag of every country pretty much has red in it. It’s power, there’s no fence-sitting with red. Either you love it or you don’t. I think it’s blood and strength and life. I do love red. I love all colors. Great shades of blue, you find them in nature. They’re all magic.” – Bryan Batt

“Your attitude is like a box of crayons that color your world. Constantly color your picture gray, and your picture will always be bleak. Try adding some bright colors to the picture by including humor, and your picture begins to lighten up.” – Allen Klein

“Red is such an interesting color to correlate with emotion, because it’s on both ends of the spectrum. On one end you have happiness, falling in love, infatuation with someone, passion, all that. On the other end, you’ve got obsession, jealousy, danger, fear, anger and frustration.” – Taylor Swift

“Creativity is just connecting things. When you ask creative people how they did something, they feel a little guilty because they didn’t really do it, they just saw something. It seemed obvious to them after a while. That’s because they were able to connect experiences they’ve had and synthesize new things.” – Steve Jobs

“Creativity involves breaking out of established patterns in order to look at things in a different way.” – Edward de Bono